Single's Commitment

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Yesterday, I had a vision (not a real vision, actually it was just a flash of memory) about my past when I was a single woman. It tickles my brain and my fingers. "I wanna write something about it." I said to myself cheerfully. And, here I share my opinion about Single's Commitment in my gallery.



First, a few words about being a single. Well, there are two words that is strongly related to it; condition and option. We always find these words when asking someone why they are single. Don't get it wrong, being a single is not something to be blamed.


Sometimes, people judge them, who are still single, when most of their friends or relatives have or get a couple. Every 'single' person has their own reason. They have right to uncover the reason or just keep it deep in their heart. Never try to talk around the bush which can hurt their feeling at the end.


Now, about condition. Condition is a rule or decision that you must agree to. The question is: Who decide it? The answer is: God. He decides it, that you have to be a single until He brings you to meet your destined one. In this circumstance, waiting patiently is the key.


The problem is: Waiting is the most boring thing in the world. On the other hand, if we know how to maintain boredom, there are many advantages which we can get. Waiting is about time, spending time. There are many things to do to spend time. For example; increasing knowledge, enlarging relationship, expanding business, evolving passion. After doing those things and there is no result, maybe ... The All Mighty is waiting for the single to enhance their inner beauty first. Or ... maybe the destined one is not good enough yet. Be patient 😅!


The next is option. Option is a freedom to choose what you do. In this state, the singles are the king (or the queen). No one's chit chat can touch nor hurt them. They choose to be a single until they want to get a life time partner. Most of them want to finish their study or get a better financial. They aim for the best life they can have in the future with their couple. Maybe they think, it will be more easier to 'fish' someone's attention and heart when they are in the top condition of everything.


For some reason, being a single is avoiding someone's intervention in life that has been created perfectly. For example, a single parent. Some of them get a successful career or business and capable to raise their child/children. They afraid if someone new come in, there will be a disaster that mess off their own perfect world.


Single's commitment is a must in everyway. Why? Commitment is like a  cream (or jam) inside a roll cake. That commitment will specify what single you are; The sweet one, the sour one, or the tasteless one.


The last, ask your self! "What single are you wanna be? Low quality? Or high quality?"


Thank you for reading this text. Hopefully, you get a 'profit' by it. Have a nice day 😊!

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